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Sunday, September 30, 2012

Dear wifey - Time Flies

Dear Bunda,

Do u remember about time relativity story? It has happened again. It feels like just yesterday I was picking up you in Changi Airport. With red clothes and surprisingly thinner body. I was so happy that day. Indeed I am still happy to right now although maybe at least until tomorrow morning. This holiday moment is the longest time we are staying together as husband and wife. We have been together for almost 8 weeks. It is so sweet.

Dear wifey from the depest of my heart I want to apologize if I have made any inconvenience to you. I am sorry for any statement that perhaps you don't like or any of my behaviour that make you uncomfortable. These times we were together was awesome. Melaka and Legoland. Jember and Jonggol. Even by doing nothing and tickling each other with you in the room always awesome.

Dear bunda have a safe trip for tomorrow and this Friday. I am gonna miss you so much. It's been a while since I wrote this statement: please wait me in one of the city in Europe. I failed to make it come true for this year. But maybe God somehow shifted the time to another time soon from now. At end of this year or beginning of next year or latest (so confidence isn't it) mid year of next year at the new semester.

PS: I love u

Sunday, September 9, 2012

Dear wifey - Blessed Husband

Dear Bunda,

Getting merried with you is the most amazing thing in my life. Sometime I feel so lonely when have to spent most of our time not together with you. But at the other side I feel so blessed at our minimum together time that we have when we do so many things together. Like just walking arround Singapore, driving from district to district like when we was in North Sumatera, flying with airplane and seeing you sleep so peacefully, travelling to neighboring country like yesterday or even when we just tickling each other on the bed will be always the wonderful thing to do.

Dear wifey, thank you for being so sweet, patient and always nice with me. You are trully my angel whom I want to be with forever. I love you now and later.

PS: I love you

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Dear wifey - The Rain

Dear Bunda,

The sky is cloudly in this couple of days. Even the last two days was always raining everyday. It will be so wonderful to spent sometime lying on the bed. Just not doing anything and enjoying the warm of the room while at outside rain falls heavily.

Rain always bring a melancolic moment. Rain will bring colder temperature. Wet asphalt. Splash of water when hitting pavement.

I have been being a motorbike rider for almost 10 years. The sadest moment but at the same time the sweetest moment on the ride was at the time of raining. If I brought a wet suit, I will stop to nearest place with a roof to use the coat and continue to ride again. If I didn't bring it I will stop and wait until the rain stop or until at least the rain not so that hard anymore. But most of time the rain is never stop at the time I move away again. So at the end I always get wet with or without stopping.

While stopping I often stop in different places. My favorite will be a mosque. Because usually it will be more comfort and warm. One I remember was a mosque near Pondok Gede when I was still in college. At that time I stop from before maghrib until about 9 PM abd the rain even still not stopping yet.

Beside mosque, other nice stop is warung. Not as comfort and warm as mosque but at least we can chew so many things. Other option will be a gass station, people front house or just an empty building.

Seeing cloud this morning bring me again to all of those memories. Rqin will be always a sweet moment.

PS: I love you

Sunday, August 26, 2012

Dear wifey - Happy Ied Mubarak

Dear Bunda,

The last two weeks we were together is one of the most wonderful time in my life. I can't wait to have unlimitted wonderful time with you for the rest of ourlife and there after.

We are blessed by had been born in muslim country. We have full of enjoyment and excitement in every religious celebration especially hari raya and hari qurban (using malay term). Idul fitri always will be a sweet moment where almost all family member gathered. Sometime I can't wait to arrive at the moment when we will gather with our grand children later. Of course as a nice and wise grandparents.

Do you realize that time often moving so fast. For example, do you realize that we have passed 9 months as a husband and wife? I think it will felt like no time for us to became mom and dad also grandmother and grandfather.

Dear bunda, this is my official mail to say happy ied mubarak. I want to apologize for so many mistake that often I made (sometime repeated mistake). I promise want to try harder to be best hubby for you and best father for our so many children. Thank you for beautiful ied holiday from J to J, Jember to Jonggol. Can't wait to enjoy barakah of next ied, Insya Allah with our first baby, with our owned house and of course nice sport car.

PS: I love you

Thursday, August 16, 2012

Dear wifey - Wonderful Breakfast with wonderful people

Dear Bunda,

This morning suddenly I remember a moment when I was staying in Choa Chu Kang. Knowing your friend is a wonderful thing for me. All of them are very nice people.

Every weekend usually we will go for breakfast together. There are some central market near their apartment. In second floor of that place there are a hawker. We usually will eat at malaysian food stall.

Oh ya, we need to walk sometime from apartment to approach that place. But since we went together it is always so enjoying to talk and laugh with them. The member of the party usually me, Feri, Was, Yoso and sometime Fikie when he came to Singapore. We will talk so many things a long the way. We will jaywalkimg silently when suddenly cop patrol car passed.

When we arrive at the hawker we will queueing at our favorite stall, most of time was that malaysian food since there are not many option for halal food. Later we will order our drink. For me most of time I order tea o peng. The one that I always remember is Was. He is really love coffee. So most time he will drink coffe with toast bread and half boiled egg. After finished eat we will talk for a moment then heading home together again.

It was always a wonderful time.

PS: I love you

Thursday, August 9, 2012

Dear wifey - Rhe Sound of Dddrrrttt Drrrttt

Dear Bunda,

Have you ever heard sound from luggage wheels when dragged on the top of travelator? It sound like drrrttt drrrttt drrrttt when we drag our luggage by walking on travelator. We will hear it mostly in airport. But in Singapore there are some travelators also in MRT station. Usually in interchange. I heard that sound just now. It remind me a lot at the beginning time I moved to Singapore. I quite often go to Indonesia that time. Mostly for wedding preparation. When I brought a cabin luggage and in a hurry for catching the flight, I will make my cabin luggage sound drrttt drrrttt when I walk fast on travelator.

Now it has been more then 8 months since we married and half of it was spent by staying in a distance from you. Sometime time move so fast isn't it? Yes I have discussed time topic quite many. Because it is the thing that separate and also unite us again. The time is now. After 8 months. I reminded by a simple dddrrrttt ddrrtt sound.

Can wait to go to evening of this day and meet u at the airport. I will make sure for us to have a wonderful time together.

PS: I love you

Dear wifey - Bourne Story

Dear Bunda,

Aku sedang menonton Bourne Ultimatum. Bourne adalah sebuah seri novel tulisan Robert Ludlum. Cerita tentang seputar dunia spionase. Menariknya hanya beberapa seri yang dibuat oleh Robert Ludlum sebelum ia meninggal. Seri novel ini kemudian dilanjutkan oleh Eric Van Lustbader dimulai dari Bourne Legacy yang sedang tayang di bioskop saat ini. Sayangnya Bourne Legacy pemain utamanya bukan Matt Dammon lagi tapi Jeremy Renner. Ia pertama kali aku lihat di Mission Impossible dan kemudian di The Avengers sebagai Hawk Eye. Tak tahu kenapa rasanya kurang enak menonton Bourne tanpa Matt Damon, meski aku mungkin tetap ingin melihat Bourne Legacy.

Aku senang Bourne dibandingkan katakanlah James Bond (tak perlu sebut Johhny English) adalah karena Bourne terasa lebih humanis. Tentu saja Bourne tetap saja super power dengan segala kemampuan bela diri, keahlian senjata dan kecerdasannya. Tapi ia bekerja sendiri dan berbeda dengan Bond, Bourne tidak suka main perempuan. Ia setia dengan kekasihnya Marie Kreutz yang dimainkan Franka Potente. Oh ya bicara tentang Franka Potente, ia adalah orang Jerman dan pertama kali terkenal saat memainkan film Run Lola Run, salah satu film Jerman yang ingin aku tonton sejak dulu. Sayangnya Marie meninggal di seri Bourne kedua, Bourne Suppremacy.

Menariknya di Bourne Ultimatum, Bourne sempat dekat dengan Nicky Parson yang dimainkan Julia Stiles, namun hubungan mereka sengaja dibuat menggantung di akhir film ketiga ini. Awalnya aku mengira cerita mereka akan diangkat di film keempat. Ternyata film keempat tokohnya pun sudah berbeda total.

Daya tarik Bourne adalah kecerdasannya, bisa banyak bahasa. Selain itu Bourne juga syuting di banyak tempat-tempat menarik di Eropa. Di Bourne Ultimatum terjadi adegan kejar-kejaran yang seru di Tangier Maroko. Dengan nuansa perkotaan Afrika Utara yang indah sangat memancing daya tarik untuk mengunjunginya suatu waktu. Berikut tempat-tempat lainnya. Tentunya bersama bunda.

Btw aku jadi ingin sekali nonton Bourne Legacy. Nanti kita lihat sama-sama ya. Btw lagi aku baru sadar di paragraf terakhir email ini kalau aku ternyata menulis menggunakan Bahasa Indonesia. :p

PS: I love you